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0–5 monthsGross Motor (physical culture)

turns to look at someone who is talking to them

Observe whether the child: turns to look at someone who is talking to them

What it looks like

Three ways this behaviour shows up as a child grows. Each level includes everyday moments to watch for.

Emerging

Just starting

Your child is beginning to notice a person talking nearby and may turn their eyes or head toward the voice, but the response is still brief, delayed, or easier when the speaker is close.

What you might see

  • Briefly shifts eyes or head toward a nearby voice after a pause
  • Turns more often when the speaker is close, familiar, or using a calm clear voice

Expected

On track

Your child turns to look at someone who is talking to them, showing a reliable head or eye turn toward the person’s voice during everyday interaction.

What you might see

  • Turns head or gaze toward a person who is talking to them
  • Responds during ordinary moments such as feeding, diapering, or being held
  • Looks toward the speaker without needing touch or repeated calling

Exceeding

Going further

Your child often turns on their own toward familiar and unfamiliar speakers, keeps looking during the interaction, and does this across different places and positions.

What you might see

  • Turns toward voices from different directions or in different rooms
  • Keeps looking at the speaker and may brighten, quiet, or move in response

Try this at home

Small everyday moments where you can notice this behaviour without setting up anything special.

  • When you talk to your child from beside them, notice whether they turn their eyes or head toward you.

  • During feeding or diapering, pause and speak gently, then watch whether your child looks toward your face.

  • Try this with another familiar adult and see whether your child turns toward that person’s voice too.

Where this comes from

The dataset source and any supporting developmental research.

Dataset source

  • Stenhaug, B., Ram, N., & Frank, M. C. (2021). The Stanford SHQ: A measure of early developmental milestones.

    The SHQ item asks parents to observe whether the child turns to look at someone who is talking to them.

Developmental research

  • Brazelton, T. B., & Nugent, J. K. (1995). Neonatal Behavioral Assessment Scale (3rd ed.). Mac Keith Press.

    Early infant assessments commonly include orienting to voices and faces as observable signs of attention and early social responsiveness.