Observe whether the child: supports their head completely
What it looks like
Three ways this behaviour shows up as a child grows. Each level includes everyday moments to watch for.
Emerging
Just starting
Your child is beginning to control the head, but the head may still wobble, drop forward, or need careful adult support during holding or position changes.
What you might see
Holds the head steady for a short moment, then it wobbles or drops.
Needs a parent hand close behind the head during most position changes.
Expected
On track
Your child supports their head completely when held or positioned safely, without the head lagging or needing constant adult support.
What you might see
Keeps the head upright when held safely.
Does not need constant support under the head.
Shows steady head control during calm handling or routine care.
Exceeding
Going further
Your child keeps the head steady on their own across familiar positions, such as being held upright, carried, or gently shifted during everyday care.
What you might see
Maintains head control while looking toward a parent voice or nearby object.
Keeps the head steady across several familiar positions without extra help.
Try this at home
Small everyday moments where you can notice this behaviour without setting up anything special.
When you hold your child upright with safe body support, notice whether the head stays steady.
During a slow position change, watch whether the head needs extra support or stays controlled.
Notice whether head control is steady only for a moment or throughout routine holding.
Where this comes from
The dataset source and any supporting developmental research.
Dataset source
Stenhaug, B., Ram, N., & Frank, M. C. (2021). The Stanford SHQ: A measure of early developmental milestones.
This item asks parents to observe whether the infant supports the head completely.
Developmental research
Adolph, K. E., & Franchak, J. M. (2017). The development of motor behavior. Wiley Interdisciplinary Reviews: Cognitive Science, 8(1-2), e1430.
Head control is an early postural skill that supports later infant motor exploration and stable movement.